For centuries, love has been made out to be the ultimate, most mysterious emotion or feeling. It seems to be one of those things we can never define but like to think we understand it and that we could recognize the real thing. It’s time to really call it what it is. To once and for all define exactly what love is. Where do we start?

It’s A Verb

Let’s put some action on it! Love should be seen as an action vs just simply a feeling or a thing. Love is more active than passive and we have full control over who/what we love.

It’s Not All Rainbows And Butterflies

Love is pain. It’s war. It’s work. Yes, love feels fabulous, but it's unrealistic to think that love is not supposed to hurt or be hard work. We’re all imperfect humans here.

It’s About Growth

Yes! Two people growing individually while also growing together. Never expect your partner to be the same. Allow him/her to grow.